Wednesday, October 12, 2022

I Am Not Weird

"You are not broken and in need of fixing.

You are wounded and in need of healing."

~Danu Morgan~

If you only ask yourself the question, What is Wrong With Me? -- then you will only see the negative in your life.

We must instead ask ourselves, What is Right With Me? -- and put our focus and energy into cultivating those qualities...  Do we need therapy to "fix" and rehash the past or Do we need to reconnect with an activity that we love and put our time and thoughts and energy into learning more about that activity and doing that activity.

“Your beliefs become your thoughts, 

Your thoughts become your words, 

Your words become your actions, 

Your actions become your habits, 

Your habits become your values, 

Your values become your destiny.”

~Gandhi~

Also, when we ask What is Wrong With Me we need to really look deeply at the answers. Because most of the things that we think are wrong with us Have Nothing To Do With Us. The answers that we are giving are actually The Things That Happened To US. Therefore the question truly is: 

What Is Wrong With The Person Who Did This To Me?

REMEMBER: You Do Not Have To Be Afraid Of The Things That Are Inside of You. Don't be afraid of yourself, Trust yourself. You can handle it. You are strong enough. Despite what you were told about yourself.

REMEMBER: When CHOOSING the people to have in your life and when CHOOSING to remove the toxic people from your life, ask yourself: Who are Generous Listeners that are worthy of my friendship? And then also remember that you must be a Generous Listener to become worthy of the friendship of others.

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